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Thursday, August 16, 2012

Turns Out I'm Just FULL of Good Ideas...


I have a friend who, having started an exercise regime a couple years ago, is in love with her new-found muscles.

“Here,” she grunts, pushing her belly forward, “Punch me. Feel those muscles. Go ahead. Punch me.”

Who can pass up such a situation? Lots of people, as it turns out. No one wants to punch a woman in the stomach, even if she is specifically requesting it and pushing her tensed muscles toward you.

OK. It’s not a friend of mine. It’s me. And I sheepishly acknowledge that, having rediscovered my physical self two years ago, I may have flexed for a few people.

Ahem.

See, I’ve always been good at exercising my brain, but my body? Left to my own devices, I am not the woman to go running the paths around the lakes. I admire those people, I’ve wanted to be one of those people, but running? Like being chased by two puppies in a gunny sack, if you follow my meaning.

Which got me to thinking.

Is there a card for this, for people in the throes of changing how they see themselves?

“Congratulations on having discovered your body! I hope you two are very happy together.” And then you open it up. “Now stop challenging me to drunken push-ups.”

Why not?

I’m not the only one, of course. I honestly did have a friend who used to show me how her personal coach made her do lunges. There she’d be, showing me her lunges, lunging from one end of the yard to the other, demonstrating how her thigh is parallel to the ground, when to inhale, when to exhale.

So yes. I am aware of how dull “check out my new muscles” can be; and I’ve personally declared, here and publicly, that enough is enough.

I hereby recognize and concede that I will no longer –even when drunk! – challenge people to The Arm-Wrestling Champeenship of the World.

Which is why I think there should be a card involved. You know, just to get it out of the way, a formal acknowledgment that yes, cool that you’re working out; yes, I see that your pants are looser; yes, your egg-white-and-wheat-germ omelet recipe sounds intriguing; and yes, they’re doing wonderful things with soy these days.

Outside of the card: “I hear you’re not eating gluten!” Inside of the card: “Can I have it?”

You know, I’m just full of ideas, all day long.

I’m not saying they’re good ideas. I’m just saying I’m full of them.

32 comments:

Shelly said...

I spewed my water at this- we're on the same path today. I have a card on order- I can send you a copy, and I also have my ab status on one of those Medic Alert bracelets, so they won't be alarmed at how FIRM my core is should I fall victim to an accident. :)

My post today is also about working out and the gym. There are joys in middle age, aren't there?

Symdaddy said...

Surely, if you went running, you would be ... ahem! ... pushing your puppies, wouldn't ya?

Just sayin'!

Anonymous said...

I'll be 78 next month but my memory isn't completely gone. For instance, I remember having stomach muscles!

Joyful Things said...

Instead of punch I poked and apparently the newly created abdominal muscles (or nerve endings or whatever is in there unprotected by fat and flab) still feels the sharp pain of a well placed poke. I don't believe she's asked anyone to punch her abs again.

I'll be checking the Hallmark rack - I'd buy those cards :>)

Ms Scarlet said...

No harm in being proud of your achievements... I am flexing my new biceps as I type... they may only be weeny, but they are new to me.
Sx

joeh said...

Ahh go ahead and show off those muscles...you got to listen to how smart their freaking kids are don't you.

Anonymous said...

I've been told I'm full of .... oh .... wait. That's a whole other thing.

Amy said...

It is in our DNA to try to convert others to our way of doing things. Religion, politics, dating, dieting. If we convert someone and they are happy, we get karma credits, right?

Geo. said...

There's entirely too much lunging and crunching going on and not enough scampering. Muscles are fine but I like to fit into places where big people can't get me.

Lynn said...

And then they want you to do it, too. I know that kind. :) I've with you, Pearl.

Teresa Evangeline said...

If I hear one more person say they don't do dairy and gluten, I'm going to puke up my excess right on their running shoes. Or, their lunging shoes.

Pearl, girl, I'm sure glad you're so darn funny. It makes life feel better every time I read you.

klahanie said...

Ah Pearl, well you certainly are full of it. Full of good ideas. Loved your post which I could um certainly stomach. Maybe I'm a 'gluten' for punishment! :)
Just sayin'...
Your starstruck fan, Gary...

jenny_o said...

I do like this card idea. I'd never GET one, but I could give quite a few :)

Which makes me think: there might be a market for a sympathy card for the abs, lungs and heart of people like me who haven't found our calling in the fitness world yet ...

Pat said...

I go up and own stairs a lot.

Ms Sparrow said...

Good going, gal! I salute both your efforts and your restraint in gloating about it.

Dawn@Lighten Up! said...

I'm one of the dummies runnin the paths around the lake. I am slow and short, so tall people - walking - are able to pass me. But I'm out there.
Here - take a look at these calves...c'mon look at 'em, Pearl...:)

http://howtobecomeacatladywithoutthecats.blogspot.com said...

I tried roller blading around Lake Calhoun once... ended up with my entire backside all black and blue (and purple and green and yellow.) That's how I came to the realization that exercise is not good for everyone.... well, me anyway.

vanilla said...

Oh, I like the card. Are you selling it? I have about sixteen friends that could be the recipients. Lucky me.

Ian Lidster said...

I have been told that a good walk is just as beneficial as lame-ass running. That's my belief and I'm sticking to it. If a woman were to ask me to punch her in the tummy I wouldn't, of course do it, but I'd be grateful for her showing her tummy because I have a kind of fetish about lady tummies. TMI? Probably.

raydenzel1 said...

It would appear that I am a fan of muscles, puppies and yes even calves!
No, I am not staring...

Unknown said...

What an inspiration - in body and mind! : ) x

Indigo Roth said...

Hey Pearl. No more arm wrestling? Even when we're totally shit-faced?! cos, I'm just saying, I could take you. Best of 5. No, 7. Roth x

Indigo Roth said...

Hey Pearl. No more arm wrestling? Even when we're totally shit-faced?! cos, I'm just saying, I could take you. Best of 5. No, 7. Roth x

Unknown said...

Good for you! Glad you have abs. I have flabs.

Elephant's Child said...

Sadly I am with Eva Gallant. And full of good intentions as well as full of chocolate, wine and laziness.

Douglas said...

I am waiting... very patiently... for full body transplants.

The Cranky said...

'Scuse me whilst I clean off my monitor...

River said...

My stomach muscles packed up and left me 10 years ago. If I wanted to find them now, I'd have to instigate a world-wide search.

Lucy Corrander Now in Halifax! said...

'Two stone gone, ten to go' Would that be a suitable inscription for a congratulations card?

Tempo said...

Thats real interesting, people have been telling me I'm full of it for years...

Anonymous said...

Ha! I wish I'd had your cards last weekend when I was trapped at a party between 2 women blathering away about their diet/exercise regimen. It went on for over an HOUR.

Jayne Martin said...

May I please have some of your muscles and some of your ideas? I seem to be lacking in both these days.