Good God, people, it’s Friday again, and time for the Mighty iPod.
Tell us, O iPod! What’s up with my weekend?
St. Elsewhere by Gnarls Barkley
Tell Me In the Morning by Cold War Kids
Jesus Built My Hotrod by Ministry
You Speak My Language by Morphine
Hey Eugene by Pink Martini
Rollerskate Jam by Plantlife
Train In Vain by The Clash
Hallelujah by John Cale *
* One of my very favorite songs and not available on Playlist!
That’s it, people! There’s romance in my future – followed by heartache, apparently. (In other words, it’s looking like every weekend.)
I’m feeling nostalgic today, in the very best sense of the word. Come on in, take the steps at the front of the trailer and sit with me at the kitchen table…
My father, as perhaps has already been mentioned, was a salesman, and a good one at that. He had a talent for conversation, for appealing to the common denominator in any group. He was not shy about using this talent.
“How’d you kids like to make 50 cents?”
And no matter how many times I heard that phrase, I always fell for it.
“Let’s see how fast you kids can wash the car. Get it done in under 15 minutes and there’s a small DQ cone in it for you.”
Neighborhood kids would follow him to the shed for a rag and a bucket, squeal-y with the anticipation of working their collective asses off for a 30-cent cone.
My father worked as soon as he was old enough to consider working, and he sought to instill in us the same burning desire to toil as soon as we were old enough to hear about it. Like my mother’s belief in the medicinal properties of the Hot Wet Washrag, my father believed in the healing power of work, in the self-affirmation of a steady paycheck.
“I had a paper route when I was a boy. Did you kids know that? Did I ever tell you about the route I had when I was a boy?”
I applied for my first job in fourth grade by filling out a form in the back of a comic book. There, next to advertisements for x-ray specs and garlic chewing gum, was the opportunity to earn extra money. I was, of course, hired immediately and went door-to-door selling candles, greeting cards, little porcelain salt and pepper figurines of angels, windmills, and mushrooms.
My father was sitting at the kitchen table when my first catalogs came in the mail. He patted the chair next to him, then held his hand out. I handed him the catalogs. He flipped through one.
“See? You’re thinkin’. You’re thinkin’,” he said, tapping the side of his nose. “You’re in a trailer park, you got all these doors right next to each other. Boom, boom, boom, you’re up and down the streets in five, six hours.”
He paused, lit a cigarette.
“Let me hear your patter,” he said.
“Your patter. Your spiel. Your opening line when they open the door.”
I hadn’t considered my patter.
He slapped his left hand on the kitchen table.
“See?” he said. “You lost me. You lost me and I’m closin’ the door.” He leaned forward in his chair, ready to slam an imaginary door.
I put my arm out. “Wait!” I paused. “OK.” I said. “Knock, knock.”
“Who’s there?” my father said.
“Hi. My name is Pearl and I’m 10 years old and I’m selling candles and cards and cute little salt and pepper shakers because I want to buy a bike. Would you like to see a catalog?”
My father sat back, tapped his cigarette into an ashtray shaped like an outhouse.
“OK. Not bad. Not bad. But hand them the catalog, don’t ask them if they want to see it. You asking gives them the chance to say no. And when you hand it to them, have it open to the candles. Women love candles.”
“And how old are you again?”
He looked at me, frowned. He seemed perplexed. “Tell ‘em you’re nine.”
“Nine sounds better.”
“It just does. Trust me.”
He paused again.
“Oh, and don’t tell them it’s for a bike. Bikes are iffy. Tell ‘em you’re going to band camp or something. People always want to send kids away for a couple weeks.”
Have a great weekend everyone! I’m here Saturday and Sunday, too, so stop by if you’re not busy.
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